for parents/carers of neurodivergent children

This May: A Gentle Space to Build Calm, Together

How to reduce your child’s meltdowns, shutdowns and anxiety by 79% in less than 4 weeks.

INSTANT ACCESS

Imagine this:

✅ Fewer meltdowns and shutdowns—no matter how busy or overwhelming life gets.

✅ A deeper understanding of your child’s emotions—and knowing exactly how to guide them through challenges.

✅ Less stress for you—and more space to enjoy the moments that truly matter.


✅ Deeper family connections that thrive through life’s ups and downs.

✅ Ongoing support and understanding whenever you need it, through easy access via WhatsApp.


From Crisis to Calm: Support Your Child and Prevent Burnout


Parenting an autistic child can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when routines, environments, and social demands are constantly shifting with the pressures of daily life and school.

But it doesn’t have to lead to burnout, isolation, anxiety, or meltdowns.

You can take simple, positive steps to guide your child from crisis to calm—and create a life where they thrive.


It’s Not About Gadgets, Trends, or Online Advice that Promise Quick Fixes—It’s About Real Solutions

I’ve helped over 75 families transform their relationships, reduce stress, and create calmer, happier homes. Together, we focus on practical, neuroaffirming strategies that work for your unique family.

This isn’t a quick fix or a one-size-fits-all solution—it’s a proven way to create lasting change for your child’s wellbeing. It has worked for these families, it can work for you.

You Deserve a Life Filled with Calm and Connection

As parents, it’s easy to feel like you always have to come last. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to.

By taking the first step toward positive, lasting change for your family, you’re not just helping your child—you’re improving everyone’s wellbeing, including your own. Imagine saving time, reducing stress, and creating a peaceful, connected life. It’s possible.

Highly Tailored Support

Experience an unprecedented level of support throughout the programme, with direct access via WhatsApp for personalised help whenever you need it. This is why I’m only offering 10 spaces—to ensure you receive the focused attention and care your family deserves.

Take action now to create lasting change for your family.


Instant access to all digital material, so you can start right away!

Here's what you'll discover in the Harmonious Family programme:

WhatsApp Support Starts After the Easter Holidays

  • How to reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns and shutdowns using my unique, neuroaffirming strategies.

  • Discover how to map your child's individual escalation curve through effective retrospective analysis, allowing you to spot hidden warning signs before they escalate.

  • Master proactive de-escalation techniques, ensuring your child feels understood, valued, and supported in difficult situations.

  • Foster a harmonious family dynamic by strengthening sibling relationships and prioritising your own needs, even when time and energy are limited.

  • Gain the confidence to manage meltdowns and shutdowns in any environment, with tools at the ready during a crisis or in the moments leading up to one.

  • Learn how to reconnect and set healthy boundaries using emotion coaching, building trust and security while preventing recurring challenges.

PLUS you get lifetime access and a 14 day money back guarantee.

What are other families experiences?

Billy (7) used to have meltdowns after school over seemingly small things, which would escalate quickly into shouting, throwing objects, and sometimes hitting, kicking, or biting his parents. Within a week, he'd broken two TVs. Despite numerous attempts by his parents and school to manage the situation, nothing seemed to help. Now, Billy’s family can proactively reduce meltdowns. And if he does become overwhelmed, they can prevent the situation from escalating and shorten the duration of his meltdowns.

Alice (14) had become disengaged from school, experiencing high anxiety before and after school, leading to meltdowns and withdrawal. Her anxiety worsened, resulting in a sleep disorder that kept her from attending school altogether. After working closely with Alice’s family to identify her early warning signs, we explored the causes behind her feelings of overwhelm. We addressed burnout and masking, and together, we created a plan to help Alice reconnect with herself. As a result, she began attending school more regularly and felt much happier in herself.

Alice’s mum shares,

“We were at a really low point, and life was incredibly difficult. My daughter was struggling with anxiety, and meltdowns were frequent. She was in the grips of autistic burnout, and we hadn’t fully realised it. Her meltdowns have all but disappeared now, and we're starting to settle and calm down again.”

Alfie (3) was struggling with the arrival of his baby brother. He became frustrated, damaging things and sometimes hitting his parents, particularly when his mum breastfed the baby. By working with Alfie’s parents, we viewed the situation from his perspective and implemented positive strategies. This not only improved family time but also strengthened the bond between Alfie and his baby brother. Alfie’s mum was able to breastfeed without difficulty, and Alfie even began to enjoy this time, feeling more involved and valued in the experience.

Here's what families are saying about the Harmonious Family programme:

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Plus get these bonuses worth £184:

  • Understanding Autism Workshop (Worth £36)

    In this bonus course, you'll gain a deeper understanding of autism. We’ll cover social communication differences, information and sensory processing, as well as the impact of masking, meltdowns, shutdowns, and sensory overload. You'll also explore the strengths of being autistic, your rights in relation to schools and local authorities, and the reasonable adjustments you can expect. The course includes valuable insights from an autistic adult reflecting on their childhood experiences.

  • Understanding ADHD Workshop (Worth £36)

    In this bonus course, we delve into ADHD in both children and adults. You’ll learn practical tips to improve concentration, focus, organisation, planning, and motivation, as well as emotional regulation and managing rejection sensitivity disorder.

  • Sibling Relationships Workshop (Worth £36)

    This workshop focuses on managing sibling relationships, particularly how to support the child who is neurotypical or requires less support. We’ll discuss strategies for managing conflict, building quality time, strengthening sibling bonds, and much more.

  • Supporting a Child with Pathological Demand Avoidance (Worth £36)

    In this highly popular workshop, you'll learn how to support a child with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). This approach requires specific strategies to help keep your child engaged and ensure they thrive. You'll learn new techniques that work with these children, where other approaches have failed.

  • 60 Reasonable Adjustments Infographic (Worth £10)

    Struggling to get the right support in school? This easy-to-use infographic gives you 60 practical, neuroaffirming adjustments to help your child thrive in the classroom.

  • One Page Profile (Worth £10)

    Ensure your child gets the right support at school with this clear, concise template. A one-page profile helps teachers and staff quickly understand your child’s strengths, needs, and best support strategies —so they feel valued, understood, and able to thrive every day.

  • Unmasking Autism Worksheets (Worth £20)

    Many autistic children mask their true selves to fit in, leading to stress and burnout. This guided worksheet helps you identify masking behaviours, understand their impact, and support your child in feeling safe to be their authentic self—at home and in school.

  • Autism Awareness Infographic (Worth £10)

    Help grandparents, friends and relatives better understand autism with this easy-to-read infographic. It covers sensory needs, communication differences, masking, and how to offer meaningful support—so your child feels truly accepted and understood

About Carly

I’m Carly, author of “Consulting Autistic Young People on Their Personal Happiness” published in the Good Autism Practice journal. My career began as a teacher in a specialist college, supporting autistic young people. I went on to complete a master’s degree in autism and coordinated alternative provisions for a large charity across the East Midlands and London. As Director and Head of Education for an outdoor alternative provision, I found my true passion—working closely with parents, children, young people, and staff. As an autistic individual myself, I bring a unique, firsthand perspective to understanding and supporting the autistic experience.

But why is it important to act now...?

Life can feel incredibly busy, with so many demands on your time and attention. Finding the right moment to make a change often seems impossible when everything feels overwhelming. And if you’ve tried different approaches in the past with little success, please know—it’s not your fault. You’re not alone in this. Many families face the same challenges.

But have you ever paused to consider:

How often you find yourself trying to avoid meltdowns, unsure of what might trigger them?

How frequently plans are adjusted or cancelled because things feel too much?

How many misunderstandings could be eased with just a bit more support?

How long your child has gone without the consistent help they truly deserve at school?

Most importantly, have you thought about the long-term impact that ongoing stress and anxiety might have on your child’s wellbeing, independence, relationships, and learning?


I understand that investing in another solution can feel daunting, especially after previous attempts. That’s why I offer a money-back guarantee—if you don’t see a positive change in your family, you’ll get your money back.

Many families I’ve worked with have had similar concerns, and I’ve seen the transformations firsthand, for all age groups (just check out my reviews!)

It’s never too late to make a positive change—for your child and your whole family. You’ve already done so much, and now it’s about finding the right kind of support to make lasting change.

Taking action now means you can finally create the support system your family needs to navigate those daily challenges with more ease and confidence.

It’s time to take that next step, knowing that help 1-1 whatsapp support is available, and your family’s happiness and wellbeing are absolutely worth it.

How does the Harmonious Family programme work?

4 Weeks of FlexiSupport: The Ultimate Parenting Solution

With FlexiSupport, you get the best of both worlds:

  • Self-paced learning through comprehensive digital courses

  • 24/7 direct WhatsApp support from me to guide you through questions or challenges as they arise

This flexible model allows you to learn at your own pace while knowing that you have a dedicated support system when you need it most. FlexiSupport empowers you to build your confidence, reduce meltdowns and anxiety, and create a calm, harmonious family life. With WhatsApp support you’re never alone in the process.

What You Get with FlexiSupport:

8 Digital Workshops

You'll have on demand and lifetime access to workshops on a variety of essential topics:

  • Proactive support techniques

  • Understanding autism/ADHD/PDA

  • De-escalation and managing meltdowns

  • Effective communication with schools, family members, and others

  • Strengthening parent-child relationships

  • Supporting parent and child wellbeing

  • Navigating sibling relationships


And if you're unsure where to start or worried about time, I’ll signpost you to the most relevant workshops for your current situation, ensuring you focus on what matters most to you in the moment. This way you get results quick.

You’ll not only learn what to do, but also the psychology behind it —so you’ll understand why it works.

This will give you the tools to handle new challenges, whether it's navigating school transitions, managing public outings, or any future obstacles.

Direct Support, Just for You

Get personalised answers quickly with dedicated email, voice messages, and video responses. You can reach out anytime, and I’ll respond within 24 hours. Whether it’s a quick question or a deeper challenge, I’m here to help—offering support in the format that works best for you.


14-Day Money-Back Guarantee

I’m confident that we will make a positive difference in your family’s life. That’s why I offer a 14-day money-back guarantee. If you don’t see a reduction in meltdowns or anxiety, I’ll give you a full refund. You have absolutely nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

Here's what people are saying about the Harmonious Family programme

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How to reduce your child’s meltdowns, shutdowns or anxiety by 79% in less than 4 weeks.

Instant access to all digital material, so you can start right away!

Lifetime Access + 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Remember, you'll have lifetime access to all the resources and workshops. This means you can revisit any material, at any time, whenever you need it. And, because I believe in the power of this program, I offer a 14-day money-back guarantee if working with me isn’t everything I promised or everything you hoped it would be. You can join with confidence, knowing you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.


Every family is different and unique, and I believe that support should reflect that. That’s why ALL families are welcome, and the price is per family, not per adult. Whether it's grandparents, separated parents, step-parents, or carers who play a role in supporting your child, you're all invited to join. The more support your child has, the better, and I’m here to make sure that all the family can take part without additional cost.


In just 4 weeks, you could be enjoying more laughter, less stress, and a calmer, more connected family—experiencing a 79% reduction in stress and overwhelm, and creating lasting memories that truly matter.

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